The View From My Knees

Photo submitted by Fingers and Tuesday

Do you remember the other week when Alphaboy and I discussed his little blowjob problem? If you haven’t already, I encourage you to go read our exchange. The jist is that he wished his girlfriend would blow him more often, but was afraid to ask for fear of sounding like just another demanding selfish dude. Poor guy.

After our talk, he had a conversation with his girlfriend and sent an update:

…Just thought I would follow on from the comment I left on the site, with some details of the progress I’ve made so far, pretty much all based on your advice.

I guess the developments have come down to some good communication. I brought the topic up the other night with her, and it was just after we’d had sex, so we were lying in bed, both nice and naked and sweaty and relaxed and in that nice right-after-sex stage. I tried to be as casual as I could when I brought it up, and I can’t even remember what the topic was on, but I think I did ok with it, cos she didn’t get angry. I asked why she didn’t like to do it, and the best detail I could get out of her was ‘I just don’t like it… I don’t really like doing it that much’. She said she hadn’t done it much with past boyfriends, it had never really been part of her repertoir so to speak, so I think that makes it a little more understandable.

Let me break in here to point out something Alphaboy did exactly right. He waited until right after they’d had sex, instead of bringing it up just before. Talking about it before sex may have put some pressure on her regarding the outcome of the talk. If she decided she was going to try it more often, she would be expected to do it right then. But bringing it up afterward, when they were both relaxed and loving, took all the pressure off and let them talk about it casually.

Anyway, I tried to make it clear that I actually really, really like getting head. I told her how good her mouth feels on my cock, how hot she looks moving on it, when I can feel my cock go a little deeper… I told her I understood where she was coming from, but that it is actually something I would like more of, maybe as a treat to me sort of thing. We don’t have to do it all the time, maybe just every now and then, something nice to make me feel good. I then tried your tactic sort of, and asked if there was anything more I could do, to make her feel good, something special for her. Maybe a sort of trade type scenario- she gives me head, I do whatever. But there wasn’t really anything more that she wanted, she said she’s happy with everything, enjoys the sex a lot, loves when I go down on her etc… And that’s where it sort of finished.

But it got the ball rolling, and another development came last night. Which is kind of weird and funny in the same way, I think. We went to the movies and ended up seeing ‘The Ugly Truth’, with Katherine Heigl and Gerard Butler I think the guy’s name is (not sure if it’s out over there- I’m in Australia, so I’m sure we’re behind you guys). Anyway, don’t see it, crap movie, but there’s one scene where Heigl’s character is wearing vibrating panties… and I immediately thought ‘that’s so fucking weird, I was just looking at these on the net’ (that was just in my head, btw). So we were talking about the movie after, and that scene came up, and we were laughing about it, and I just said ‘how bout I get you some of those as a treat?’ I thought she would just laugh it off, but she laughed and said ‘ok- you buy them, I’ll wear them for you’. We both laughed and joked about it. So I pushed it a little further, and said ‘how bout you have that treat, and maybe I can have some of the treat we talked about the other night- we could even do it at the same time, that could be fun.’ And yes, she agreed that could be fun, so there you go!

haha I think it has worked out amazingly well so far- I guess I didn’t go with the exact way we spoke about, but I think I’ve ended up with the same result. So now I just have to buy them…

I’m really glad you’ve made such good progess so far, Alphaboy. And definitely keep me posted on what happens next. Epecially if you get those panties!