The View From My Knees

Hi! MISS

I was dreaming about you.we are both fucking hard , with my cock heaving into your pretty hole. my heavy heaving was a sight for heavn. then u rammed into me with me lying sleeping with cock up. u jived into and out a zillion times.

e mail me soon

your lovely boobs were squeezed by me and sucked . later my cock had the privelege to be placed between your lovely boobs

i love u and want to make more love to u and your pals (threesome)

e mail me soon and we will meet and plan for a big fuck

No, this wasn’t a response to a personal ad or online profile. This was a comment left on my site some time ago in response to a post. I decided not to approve the comment, and it has been bugging me ever since. Let me explain…

I’m not a fan of censoring, and I generally don’t make judgments about the readers of my site. However, there are times when someone says something that makes me squirm, and not in that good way. While I welcome open communication about sex in the comments of this site, this comment just seemed…I don’t know…inappropriate? Even if I ignore the atrocious grammar (I choose to assume that English is not this person’s first language, and therefore he deserves some leeway), I didn’t feel that he chose the most appropriate method for his advances. I can certainly appreciate wistful comments such as, “I wish I knew you in real life so I could…” or “If we ever met in person I’d show you…” but the more direct and crass “Email me so I can squeeze your boobs” approach just left a bad taste in my mouth.

I don’t use this site to facilitate hookups. On the contrary, I have a strict policy not to make offline contact with people I’ve met through this site. There are times when I curse that policy, when someone sends me a particularly steamy email or I find myself thoroughly enjoying an IM conversation and wondering what it would be like to get a drink with the person on the other end. But, for my own safety, I feel that it is important that I follow this policy rather than trust my instincts about who I should and shouldn’t meet. Of course, I don’t have any hard feelings when a reader emails me a respectful request to meet. I politely decline and continue the conversation in the safer online world. But publicly posting a crude request for a hookup seemed to cross a line and I just didn’t want it on my site.

So, this is where I ask for your opinions. Was I justified in feeling uncomfortable allowing this comment to post to my blog? Of course I know it’s my site and I ultimately decide what does and doesn’t appear, but I can’t help wondering if censoring this comment was more about being judgmental than about maintaining the integrity of the site. Do I just sound like a pretentious sex snob? Go ahead, put me in my place.